* This story was contributed by Amanda H. Cronin, my own Digital Daughter.
Do you have an Instagram account? Odds are, yes − and you are one
of the 75 million people that use the app daily. According to recent stories
from CBS News, techcrunch.com, and TIME Magazine, Instagram is the most popular
form of social media and is gaining popularity every day. There are myriad reasons
for its wild success, but there’s one clear frontrunner: the connection users
feel to others.
Isabella, an 11th grader at my high school remarks, “Instagram is my favorite form of social media because I love seeing other people’s pictures, especially celebrities.”
Isabella, an 11th grader at my high school remarks, “Instagram is my favorite form of social media because I love seeing other people’s pictures, especially celebrities.”
So Instagram is great! You post a picture, get
some likes, maybe some comments, and move on with your life, right? Wrong.
Hidden behind the endless deluge of photos are the crazy social expectations of
the teenage world. If these implicit requirements are not conformed to in your
tiny square picture, you will feel the lonely bite of the bitter popularity
game. The account should really come with a survival guide. There are strict
unspoken guidelines on Instagram. The fact that your post must include a
clever, cute (not to mention fake) location. Or that the picture itself needs
to be outlined by a crisp white frame. Why do we subject ourselves to these
silly, frivolous rules of social media?
Yes, it is true that it can be fun. There is a
certain sense of community that comes with having an Instagram. However, we
cannot glaze over the bad stuff. A new trend, for example, has popped up over
the last couple months and they are called “finstagrams,” a fake Instagram
which is used to show bad or funny pictures of someone because other people
would find it funny. This new form of social entertainment can be looked at
through two different lenses, the first being that this is a form of
cyberbullying, and the second being that this is a harmless way to joke between
friends. Jen, a fellow sophomore, had a “finsta” made for her and is often the
target of many jokes and comments at her expense. Her opinion? “I think it's
totally fine that these accounts exist, but if they get too out-of-hand then
they should stop. Usually people have friends make their finstas, but some
people make their own, so it really would only become a problem if your friends
post something that truly isn't nice.”
We have seen before the consequences of abusing
our rights on social media. The cruelty committed on both the website Ask.fm
and the app YikYak led to their banishment from the computers and phones of
Greeley students. We have more influence on the internet than we think, and we
need to be careful not hurt each other’s feelings.
That being said, issues on social media are
often caused by miscommunication. We’re at the age when we’re trying to figure
ourselves out, and that includes learning what boundaries to push. My Digital Daughter sister, Claire, also
the subject of a “finsta” said, “I think it's important to be able to laugh at
yourself.” I agree, and in the case of “finstas” and Instagram as a whole, we
need to step back and recognize social media for what it truly is: another way
to communicate and socialize with friends. We should not take it as seriously
as we do, or use it as an opportunity to be unkind. So the next time you go to
post a picture on Instagram, forget all the expectations and meaningless
consequences. You’re here to share a photo. Go do that.
1 comment:
I love this Amanda. "We should not take it (social media) as seriously as we do, or use it as an opportunity to be unkind." The problem is that everyone has different sensitivities! But that's always going to be the case - with everything, right? One person gets bullied in school and is able to use that experience to better herself, while another of a different temperament and background commits suicide. The world is fortunate to have you in it - you will rock it! I love you!
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