Sunday, December 28, 2014

Top 10 Female Role Models AND Communicators of 2014

As the year wraps up, we are rich with pop-culture rankings including Vanity Fair’s 10 Sexiest Captain Hooks, Paste Magazine’s The 15 Best Monkeys and an annual favorite the Top 10 Worst Celebrity Role Models, which includes the likes of Rhianna, Miley Cyrus, and the Kardashians and their trend-setting ability to put appearance, money, promiscuity, and ego above substance, smarts, charity and accomplishment.

Turns out, these same celebrity role models have a powerful impact on the way young girls and women speak; the way we present ourselves to the world.  And, as has been my 2014 mantra, we need to empower girls and women to find their own authentic voice; to…like, umm, you know…. stop hedging, using fillers, and speak with confidence and conviction.

So, for this 2014 wrap up, I thought it was time to offer our girls a “best of” with 10 impressive female role models who also happen to be articulate, clever and inspiring.   

I want to grow up to be just like all of them.

1). Tina Fey.

“If you retain nothing else, always remember the most important rule of beauty which is: who cares?

Comedian, actress, writer, producer and dedicated mom Tina Fey was not only the third female winner of the Mark Twain award in 2010, but also the youngest ever.  In her 2011 bestseller “Bossy Pants,” she nails it with her, “A Mother’s Prayer for her Child,” offering hilarious and well-heeled wisdom on raising a daughter.  She is a formidable presenter, and will again be with her sidekick Amy Poehler (another of my picks) leading the ceremony at this year’s Golden Globes.   

2). Emma Watson.  

"I think it is right that I am paid the same as my male counterparts. I think it is right that I should be able to make decisions about my own body. I think it is right that women be involved, on my behalf, in the policies and the decisions that will affect my life. I think it is right that socially, I am afforded the same respect as men."

We were all moved and empowered by Emma Watson’s speech as the UN Women’s Global Goodwill Ambassador where she launched her “he for she” campaign - the first of its kind for the UN to end gender inequality and involve and galvanize men and boys to be advocates for change.  We loved watching her grow up as Hermoine Granger in the Harry Potter film series, and now, at 24, she is making her mark as an advocate for ending inequalities for women around the world.

3). Malala Yousafzai.

“I raise up my voice-not so I can shout but so that those without a voice can be heard...we cannot succeed when half of us are held back.”
Is there anyone more inspiring, fearless and exemplary than Malala Yousafzai?  She is the youngest recipient of the Nobel Peace prized, awarded to her this past July 14, (on her 16th birthday), where she took to the United Nations’ world stage demanding that world leaders provide free education to all children.  We all stand in awe.  

4). Lupita Nuyong’o.

“I hope that my presence on your screen and my face in magazines may lead you, young girls, on a beautiful journey.  That you will feel the validation of your external beauty, but also get to the deeper business of being beautiful inside.”

Lupita Nyong’o shows us that you don’t need to be brash and loud to have a commanding presence. She is a skilled, articulate, gracious and sincere communicator.   In her acceptance speech at the Academy Awards she told us, “No matter where you’re from, your dreams are valid.” 

5). Michelle Obama

“Do not bring people in your life who weigh you down. And trust your instincts ... good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don't hurt. They're not painful. That's not just with somebody you want to marry, but it's with the friends that you choose. It's with the people you surround yourselves with.”

Our first lady is a class act.   She always presents herself with strength of purpose, a sense of style, and a sense of humor.   If anyone can deliver the message effectively to teens that the key to success is staying in school, staying away from drugs and delaying children until after marriage it is Michelle Obama.

6). Hillary Clinton

“Human rights are women’s rights, and women’s rights are human rights. Let us not forget that among those rights are the right to speak freely — and the right to be heard.”

As a powerful and passionate advocate for girls’ and women’s rights globally, Hillary Clinton has often said that there cannot be true democracy unless women’s voices are heard. If you want to learn how to deliver a great speech, Hillary Clinton is prolific and inspiring and there is a whole web site dedicated to her best speeches.  Most recently, she accepted an award from the Robert F. Kennedy Center for Justice and Human Rights where she spoke out against terrorism and for justice and basic human rights.

7). Angelina Jolie.

"As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, 'The destiny of human rights is in the hands of all of our citizens and all our communities.' We must send a message across the world that there is no disgrace in being a survivor of sexual violence; that the shame is on the aggressor.”
In June, actress, filmmaker Angelina Jolie showed us once again that she is more than just an insanely beautiful woman. As a UN Special Envoy, she bravely spoke out at the Global Summit to End Sexual Violence in Conflict. Jolie promotes humanitarian causes, and is noted for her work with refugees as a Special Envoy and former Goodwill Ambassador for the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR). 

8.) Sheryl Sandberg.

“If you're offered a seat on a rocket ship, don't ask what seat! Just get on.”

As the COO of Facebook, the one monetizing the world’s largest social network, Sheryl is the only C-Level executive on my list (Other great role models include GM’s Mary Bara, HP’s Meg Whitman and Yahoo’s Marissa Mayer).  Even with such a massive job, Sheryl seems to find the time to teach and provide support for women and girls to “lean in” and achieve their goals.  At this year’s Harvard Commencement address she told girls to “dream bigger – both for yourself and the world around you.” 

9). Amy Poelher.

“Change the world by being yourself.”

Actress, writer, director, producer and funny woman Amy Poelher is actively using her talent and position to empower girls to “celebrate your truest self.”  Along with two of her “besties,” she created the web series “Smart Girls at the Party” and has a great site, an Instagram (amypoelhersmartgirls) and Facebook page  where you can become a part of the greater Smart Girl community, engage in volunteerism, civic activism, cultural exchange, and self-expression through the arts.

10). Ellen Degeneres

“Follow your passion. Stay true to yourself. Never follow someone else's path unless you're in the woods and you're lost and you see a path. By all means, you should follow that.”

Ellen Degeneres’s joy is contagious. She is the hallmark of a brand of comedy that doesn’t need to default to foul language to get a laugh. Ellen is kind and funny and all about “being true to yourself.” In 1997, she came out as gay and has become a staunch advocate of LGBT rights.  She is also a huge proponent for animal rights.

Who inspired you this year? 


Anonymous said...

If you think that a memory can inspire, consider adding a Soldier to your list, your cousin Lieutenant Roslyn Schulte. This past year the Air force Academy presented an award for Character and Leadership in her honor to one of their top cadets. This past Memorial day several dozen of her colleagues traveled to St Louis to meet with her family to reflect on her memory.

A bit about her.
She attended High School in St Louis, graduating in 2002. She captained the lacrosse team and became an all-American lacrosse player. Her parents said that while on the field, any time one of Boeing's F15s flew overhead, she paused in admiration and spoke of how one day she would be a fighter pilot.
Her favorite movie was ‘Top Gun’. At the Spirit of St. Louis Airport, she’d take photos of planes. She always loved the planes. And she wanted to do something honorable that had purpose and meaning. Those passions led her to look into the Air Force.” She was part of the first class to have entered the academy after the September 11 attacks.
Lt. Schulte (Roz) could have attended an Ivy League school because her grades were exceptionally good, plus she was an all American athlete. Instead she chose the Air Force Academy. At the academy, she was among the top in her class. She received a bachelor’s degree in political science in 2006, graduating with academic and military honors. While in school, she worked as an intern for a Republican Senator from Colorado, and she became a group commander — one of the academy's highest positions — and captained the lacrosse team.
Her family questioned her interest in military profession where she would be working in a group made up mostly of men.
"Do you think they are going to bully me?" she would defiantly respond.
Lt. Schulte showed signs of being a natural leader early in life. Her father said she would call him while she was at the Academy and say, 'Dad, all these guys might fly the planes, but they follow me.'
Her love of James Bond led her away from flying and to her Air Force specialty of intel and covert operations where she develop a reputation as a great communicator. Because of her superior communication skills, one of her jobs was to serve as an instructor in a “sensitivities and ethics” course for other military personnel on communicating effectively with the Afghan people, as well as other nationalities represented in the U.S.-led coalition.
She was always kind to others. Someone who is normal” was all civilian contractor Kristina Kulbe requested when the military asked her to list the traits she was seeking in a roommate while stationed in Afghanistan. Air Force 1st Lt. Roslyn “Roz” Schulte exceeded all of Kulbe’s expectations. “She was young, she was kind,” Kulbe recalled. “It was never about her. It was always about others. She brought a lot of people together.”
Air Force Lt. Roslyn L. Schulte, 25, IED hit on vehicle near Kabul, May 20, 2009. making her the first female United States Air Force Academy graduate to be killed by enemy action.
At her funeral at the Congregation Temple Israel in St. Louis her boyfriend U.S. Air Force Cpt. Bruce Cohn announced that he was going to propose to Roslyn the summer after she returned.

Audrey Mann Cronin said...

Absolutely. Lieutenant Roslyn Schulte belongs on this list of female role models. Thanks so much for your comment and contribution.

Amanda Wesner said...

An inspiring list, Audrey! I would add Nancy Pelosi, the first woman to serve as Speaker of the House in 2007 and the highest-ranking female politician in US History. Powerful, articulate, and very aware of the power of social media in our culture. (see her 2014 Berkeley Commencement Address)

Audrey Mann Cronin said...

Nancy Pelosi is a great addition and truly inspiring. Thank you Amanda!

IndianModelsClub DelhiIndia said...

World doesnt accept the things that are different but here lies a oppurtunity to lead the humanity. Be a leader with Indian models club .......Modelling Agency in India and Top Modelling Agency In Delhi

IndianModelsClub DelhiIndia said...

Modeling not only the outer beauty, it helps you exploring your inner beauty by discovering your ambitions........ Top Modeling Agency in India and Best Modeling Agency In India